I don’t understand why women who have a miscarriage are not given the proper emotional as well as physical care after. Losing a baby is traumatic. Why the medical profession refer to the baby as tissue to be disposed of is shocking. You ask any woman who has had a scan confirming a pregnancy whether she identifies with it as a baby or viable tissue, evenat 4 weeks…the medical profession need to be more compassionate and change their language. Whether a 4 weeks or 4 months or term, a loss is still a loss and needs to be treated as such. Far too many people take the stance of ‘of well, it happened to us too and we weren’t affected, or we turned out okay, or we managed ok’ – perhaps not. Trauma has a way of presenting itself in many guises and if you had to dig a bit deeper, you’d likely find that there was an effect, one way or another.
Archive for January, 2020
Life after a miscarriage
Posted in family and relationships, Health, tagged losing a baby, medical profession, miscarriage, PTSD on January 15, 2020| Leave a Comment »
Granny and Jamie’s adventures – Canterbury
Posted in cities and towns of the UK, Granny and Jamie's adventures, my Canterbury Tales, walk 1000 miles 2020, tagged canterbury cathedral, chaucers canterbury tales, Granny and Jamie's adventures, walk 1000 miles on January 7, 2020| 2 Comments »
Had a wonderful day in Canterbury today with the boo 💙👶🏻🥰 travelled to Canterbury by train with Mummy who had a dentist appointment.
Mummy and Jamie reading the newspaper
Then Jamie and I set off on an adventure… first walking through the ancient Pilgrim’s West Gate,
Jamie at the West Gate, Canterbury
stopped for a quick hello to Geoffrey Chaucer,
Geoffrey Chaucer
then to the cathedral to see the Christmas tree and nativity scene.
The Nativity scene at Canterbury Cathedral
Jamie loved the Christmas tree
We stopped to say hello to the horse on the way out.
The wooden horse
And then we strolled along the Roman city walls
The Roman City Walls
before joining Mummy for tea and pancakes. Afterwards we walked back to the cathedral gate for a quick photo
Canterbury Cathedral
then onto the train and home.
On the train
Fast asleep
I got in a good 5kms walking today…added to my 1000 miles target for 2020.
We left Mummy in Canterbury coz I gifted her 3 days while I babysit Jamie, and treated her to a 2 night stay at The Falstaff Hotel so she can have a rest, unwind and do some business planning for 2020. Looking forward to seeing @lemonfeatherphotography and @businessstoriesphotography go from strength to strength this year.
Once we got home, I had a cup of tea, Jamie had a snooze
Asleep in his cot
and then we played all afternoon till Daddy got home.
Its so much fun unpacking the socks
Then it was bathtime
Bathtime
and after a lot of milk, Jamie finally settled for the night.
In all a wonderful day. Rerun tomorrow without the trip to Canterbury. He really is the best company. We had so much fun. I got down on the floor with him to play and he got so excited he bit my eye 😂😂😂😂🤪🤪 crazy kid.
Its really wonderful to see him looking so well again and especially as he seems to be back to full strength with his feeding…hoorah.
Granny and Jamie’s adventures
Posted in cities and towns of the UK, Fun Stuff, Granny and Jamie's adventures, me and Peanut, tagged a day trip to london, Granny and Jamie's adventures, granny to jamie, the Snowman on January 4, 2020| Leave a Comment »
I got some fantastic gifts from my daughter this Christmas (I always get fantastic gifts….she’s a star gifter) and this was one of them…..a little diary for mine and Jamie’s adventures.
Granny and Jamie’s adventure diary
The first adventure to go into the book will be our trip to London to see the Snowman sculptures. I love this idea, and the only thing I have to figure out, is what format to follow.
Jamie and The Snowman
I may just have to wing it and see how it progresses. It was such a wonderful day, albeit short and he was poorly, but he was so well behaved and so sweet. I wish it wasn’t so cold that day, I would have loved to take him out the pram and show him the sculptures properly. But I was concerned about taking him out the warm and into cold every 5 minutes.
Jamie and Granny on the train
Jamie looking adorable
Besides him being poorly, it would have been tiring for him….but as he gets older, it’ll get easier. Next week we’re going to Canterbury 😊👶🏻🥰💙
Walk 1000 miles 2020 Day 1
Posted in cities and towns of the UK, Domesday Villages of England, walk 1000 miles 2020, tagged domesday book villages england, walk 1000 miles, walking, walks around the UK on January 2, 2020| Leave a Comment »
I decided to follow the #walk1000miles challenge again this year, particularly because I didn’t do much walking last year and because I really want to complete the Pilgrim’s Way.
With the weather what it is, it was very tempting to just snuggle under the covers and sleep during my break again, especially coz I am still so tired, but I resisted the temptation and set off yesterday for my 1st walk of 2020. I didn’t go far mind and only did 2.0375 miles….. so only 997.9625 to go 😂😂😂….and then I went back to the house and had a 45 minute snooze.
I was reminded once again that East Peckham has absolutely nothing to distinguish it (that I could see), besides being a Domesday Book village, and my walk did nothing to change my opinion. Although to be fair, there is a Hop House I could see, a few older cottages and the church, so I guess that’s something. But I do wonder why people actually choose to live in some of these places. Besides that its quiet, there is just nothing, and it’s miles from anywhere …..just why?
Something to ponder, but not to know.
I’m delighted that my daughter has decided to do some more walking this year as well and she’s joined the Facebook page. She also wants to focus more on her photography business this year, it will be an opportunity for her to get going again.
Recommended reading – Val McDermid
Posted in book reviews, tagged authors, book reviews, crime thrillers, Val McDermid, wire in the blood on January 1, 2020| Leave a Comment »
Insidious Intent
Just finished the 10th in the series featuring Carol Jordan and Tony Hill (Robson Green) of Wire in the Blood. Val McDermid is one of my favourite crime writers and I always find it hard to put the book down….brilliant twist in the tale again. Loved it.
The only problem I have with reading a good book is that it eventually comes to an end….and then I wish I didn’t read so fast so it could last longer. I found this copy in a charity shop in Taunton.
One day I’ll get all the books in the series under one roof and read them in order 🥰🥰
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