So on my way home yesterday, after spending the morning at Sweetie Pies, I sent a wee message to the Universe to ask for a bit of financial input! (read – work, although a lottery win of substance would be even better). A few hours later I got a frantic call from the Agency to say that they desperately needed my help with a job in Kent! Of course I said yes, since the cash would be great to keep the wolf from the door at month end! 🙂 Although I did have a bit of a stress coz I really did not want to take on any more care work. However, needs must! But, to cheer me and give me hope, another exciting call came a bit later and a friend of mine was looking for someone to do some hefty spreadsheets for her and of course again I said yes. So that is a step in the right direction for building up ‘The Money Box’ business. Hooray! Frantic packing took place last night, sorting what to take and what not! I can’t bear to lug a heavy suitcase around the UK anymore, so now I am endeavouring to ‘travel light’….well more or less! So this morning I headed off bright and early to catch the train to Knockholt in Kent for a 7 day job. I think that if I am going to continue taking work with the agency they have to keep them short. Just as a boost to the bank balance till I get more work secured in the accounts side. Kent is a beautiful area of the UK with rolling green fields, some dotted with wooly white/ish sheep, hedgerows that tower above the road, hundreds of towering green trees, quaint and cute little villages, the well-known Hop-Houses, and winding roads that weave in and out of the patchwork tapestry of farms, fields, villages and hills. And green, green, green! The lady I am caring for is lovely and in retrospect I am glad I agreed to this position. She is the same age as me and has Muscular Dystrophy. A bit of a kick in the pants for me from a ‘get your act together Cindy’ kinda way. I want to travel and so far I have fallen into a comfort zone (which of course I am now out of), so this has given me the wake-up call I need. A shock really. I could not imagine being tied to a wheelchair for the rest of my life and I am ever so grateful that I am in relatively good health. So perhaps after all it was good that I took this postion. I do believe I am going to enjoy this position. The houses in the area are gorgeous, old pubs, the little village church, gardens spilling over with blooms, no sirens, and very little traffic to speak of. I am enjoying the quiet, a real change from London, although to be fair the house I lived at in Highgate was also situated in a very quiet spot, albeit with a very different view and much, much bigger. I am already missing Highgate, but I do love Twickenham which is where I have been for the last few days. And of course I am already missing my lovely daughter. Will be really good to see her again in a week’s time. It’s really weird being ‘homeless’, and even though I always have a roof over my head, it’s never mine! The last time I owned a roof over my head was back in 2001!!! how bizarre. So essentially I have been homeless for the last almost 10 years, and yet I have always had a place to lay my head; albeit sometimes on the floor 🙂 – usually with a mattress and pillow beneath me. So, where to from here? I seem to be asking myself this question quite a lot lately and as yet have no answer. I know exactly what I would like to be doing, yet so far the means to do so, or perhaps the method of doing so is eluding me. Not sure why, but I am sure I will figure it out. Meanwhile, it would seem that my internet woes have followed me to Kent viaTwickenham and I am no better off as far as reception is concerned than I was back in Highgate. The provider; 3, have now said they will replace the dongle…..and about time too! I told them weeks ago that was the problem! So once again I am limited to logging on and off at 3 – 4 minutes intervals to do anything…..like post this blog. It is more than annoying as I have so much research and work to do. I haven’t been on my 3 Days in London twitter account for ages!!! When I do get reception, it will be to create the page for The Money Box – the Credit Control/Accounting business I wish to pursue. It would be so brilliant if I could get enough freelance work to continue with that as I really do love that type of work. I will also have to investigate securing part-time work from agencies. Quite a daunting prospect and I recall only too clearly how demeaning it was the last time I went for interviews with agencies. All the Consultants are ‘young things’, and although it is probably my own perception, it felt pretty much like they were treating me as an antique. Hmmm, now there’s a thought! I love watching the Antiques Roadshow, and have often mused at how I would love to discover some gorgeous brooch or fab piece of antiquity for £5 at a boot sale only to find it is worth thousands of £’s 🙂 ………….heehee, dream on! Well thats it folks, another day of my new adventures gone by. And although it doesnt feel like I have made progress, I do believe I am heading in the right direction. I plan on setting up a facebook page for The Money Box and advertise my services that way. New Media Angels also have an extensive network and once I have set up all my details, then that will go out in the next newsletter. That should be fun. Then I can say that ‘The Money Box’ is now open for business!
So having traded in my bed and support mattress in a large bedroom with a view of the garden and London in Highgate, for a futon on the floor of my daughter’s bedroom in Twickenham, my hips and lower back are protesting at the indignity! The advantage of this new sleeping arrangement is that we get to chat as we settle into bed ready for sleep and she gets to have her feet massaged – my position on the floor at the foot of the bed is ideal for that! 🙂
Monday I woke to a full-blown panic-attack! Suddenly the limitations of my now defunct job seemed very attractive in comparison to having no income. I had worked on my budgets the night before and went to bed with a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. So first stop was the bank to transfer my hard-earned savings into my current account…..bills still have to be paid. Urgh! I felt a bit better later in the morning after a chat with my chica and took some time out to start my job-search. This still feels quite alien to me as I really do want to build my own business….so it’s a case of being between the devil (my debtors) and the deep blue sea (my dreams). A slightly different perspective on the old saying for sure, but a deep blue sea feels rather more attractive than the devil! 🙂
The rest of the day was spent online doing a job search. During my online search I found that there are a lot of jobs available. Only hurdle is that they require experience with programmes that are foreign to me. I did cave in and look for Carer jobs and Housekeeper jobs (time to pull out my Mary Poppins bag). I found one job that required a VERY good housekeeper to do all the necessary in the house, ‘ironing to a high standard’, looking after 2 girls 6&8, babysitting 2 nights a week and working from 7.30am-7.30pm Monday to Friday, a room with a view of the river and a salary of £300pw. Hmmm. I was tempted, except that I have to set higher goals for myself for the future.
Yesterday I earned my keep for the next two days by creating order out of chaos and sorting the piles of documents, pens (I am sure I counted at least 300 – no exaggeration), notepads and notebooks (I can’t even begin to imagine why Woolworth’s went out of business!), newspaper cuttings, magazines, business cards and much else into a semblance of order. My daughter is very creative and this is reflected in the ‘artistic’ array of chaos. As she said….she had a fair idea where things were…..now she has no idea, but at least it’s tidy! 🙂 hahaha.
I have started a list of ‘things I am good at’ and so far it is looking good. A few years ago I started up a freelance business called “The Money Box”, doing what I am best at: Debt collection (aka Accounts Receivable in the UK), sorting paperwork and organsing a logical filing system. It worked very well for a couple of months, and in retrospect perhaps I should have continued. At the time my debts had overwhelmed me and the income from this venture had not yet reached a sustainable level so I caved in and returned to Caring……that was 2.5 years ago! So now I am quite reluctant to go the same route and take the caring work as an easy solution to the income issue. I will not resort to calling it a problem, coz it ain’t. It’s just a matter of facing the errrr……fear…..etc.
Last night we, my daughter and I, sat out on a blanket on the lawn eating macaroni cheese (one of her favourite meals) and chatting about ‘where to from here?’. We drew up a plan for the londonitinerary.com and 3daysinlondon.info websites and collated the products on offer. I feel very confident about conducting tours around London now (albeit having to cram my head full of info beforehand), and would love to continue with that. The only drawback I can forsee is the confidence of potential clients……I have yet to gain a qualification in this area. I have investigated the Blue Badge Guides course, and it is £5,000-00 and 2 years to qualify. Hmmmm, a tad too long for me at this stage. Also, there are 1,000 Blue Badge Guides already operating in London, and they seem to have set routes and tours, and although they are fun (I have done 6 so far), I would prefer to be more creative.
The 3 Days in London self-guided Itineraries I have created so far are in the final stages of testing, and we plan to upload them to the website in the next 2 weeks. I really loved conducting the birthday tour I did a few weeks ago and hope to do more of that in the future. No! Actually scrap that….I PLAN to do more of that in the future 🙂 We have also discussed logical products for the site that will enhance a visitor’s experience to London and provide items of interest for them. The London coffee-table book is almost complete and that will go up as soon as it is finished. It looks terrific so far and CJ has done a fab job of it. It’s really exciting to see my photos in the book and I still marvel that they are mine….they look so good! 🙂 Forgive my momentary self-congratulation, except that I love taking photos of London and when they look that good in print, it gives me a real thrill. Oh! Btw, if you ever need photos of London….I now have over 21,000 in my collection! 🙂 and counting.
Other than that….I have completed my ‘Victorian’ novel….more like a short story actually, but my erstwhile guinea-pigs have read it and loved it! So that will go up on kindle in due course. It was quite weird how that came about actually. I was walking back from the library one day and my route took me past the lower end of the Highgate Cemetery, and as usual I walked and looked. I love to discover new headstones and am always on the lookout for unsual ones. On this particular day, a beautiful white headstone seemed to shine out from the undergrowth so I stopped and took a few photos. When I loaded them onto my computer I noticed the inscription and immediately a story popped into my head. I could see the whole family and the lass in question. The story took no more than a few hours to write and after a few days of mulling it over, tweaking and improving, researching life in Victorian days, I completed the book to my satisfaction. It was originally meant to be a short blog, but the story just built and built till it was a wee bit more than a blog!
So where am I today? Supporting the local economy of course. I walked with CJ into town, then took a walk along the river….it was so lovely at 9.30am, not many people about, and I managed to take some fab photos of Church Street (not many cars about), and the river. Then I sat on one of the benches that line the promenade and read the paper 🙂 whoo hoo. I never have time to do that. Of course I took loads of photos and took a walk over to see the ‘Beach in Twickenham’. The http://www.richmond.gov.uk/play organisation have created a play beach on Champion’s Wharf and it was already busy, busy with toddlers playing in the lovely sand as the Mum’s looked on. It will be there till 21 August. The tide was out and I got some fun photos from below the wharf, so to speak! 🙂
play beach at Champion's Wharf, Twickenham
At just after the 10 o’clock bells from the church, I meandered over to Sweetie Pies for tea and scone with jam and cream. Good for the physche, not so good for the cholesterol! 🙂 🙂 However…..! Here is a great quote I read on the menu “Each cup of tea represents an imaginary voyage. Steam rises from a cup of tea and we are wrapped in history, inhaling ancient times and lands, comfort of ages in our hands.” Catherine Douzel. Just makes you want to drink cup after cup! I settled for a pot and set my computer up….which is just where I am right now. 🙂 It’s really busy today and CJ is running her feet off. The scone was delicious and the best you will get anywhere. I have since then had a 2nd pot of tea and a miniature cupcake; chocolate with chocolate icing and pink hearts! Yummy! I can truly recommend a visit. The garden is looking wonderful, as only an english garden can and I enjoyed a brief walk about the courtyard photographing the blooms.
tea and cupcake at Sweetie Pies, Twickenham
Shortly it will be time for me to head off back home and back to the job-search. No internet reception here, so I will have to say farewell to my chica and see ya later!
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So the first day after resigning was spent in a haze of shock and a not unsubstantial state of terror!! then it was time to pack and take all my belongings back to storage. I didn’t realise just how much I had managed to accumulate once again and how much I had brought out of storage. Lucky that I was planning a break from the 6th anyway, so I had taken a huge suitcase full of books and paperwork and winter clothes back to the storage on Wednesday – the day before I quit. Needless to say there was loads more to move over and I was not feeling too happy. Even though I had made the decision to quit, I still felt quite a lot of resentment….not sure who it was directed at, but I was not a happy bunny.
So Friday night I again made my way over to the storage unit with yet another massive loads of stuff….I really have to downsize one of these days. As I was standing staring into the storage locker the thought crossed my mind that if I was to buy a campervan and start travelling, I would never in a million years get everything I had in storage into a campervan. Urgh!!! possessions!!!!
Saturday dawned bright and as I have for the last few months, I woke real early and tossed and turned, eventually dragging my sorry ass out the bed and headed off downstairs for a most wanted cup of tea. Heaven. I sat out on the verandah and just soaked up the peace and quiet, enjoyed watching the wee birds flitting back and forth from the feeder to the bushes and wondered why I had not seen any of the squirrels for the last few days….not even Sue! 🙂 who was usually first one at the table. It has been a great treat to sit out on the verandah and watch this little creature who has gotten so used to my presence that it doesnt even run away now when I come out the door. In fact it had gotten so tame that I almost managed to entice it to eat out my hand!!! 🙂 I am most definitely going to miss this garden.
I felt really sad actually, as I sat there. This has been my home for the last 18 months and I had grown to love the house and the garden and especially the wildlife. The foxes in the evenings as they come to eat the food I put out have been enchanting to watch, and the baby has now grown quite fat (no surprise) and lovely in the last few weeks. Of the four pups I saw a few weeks ago, only the one still returns. I think it may have made itself a home in the undergrowth. But, I digress….
The day did not go at all well after that, and I got a call with a very unpleasant situation (which I won’t go into), but suffice to say that thankfully I had packed up the last of my possessions the night before and only had minimal cleaning still to do before the take-over Carer arrived at 12noon. However, the events of the morning just reminded me really of why it was time to move on! By 1.30pm I was done and finally….freedom!!! no time limits, no night calls, no bossy visitors, and no salary!!!! 🙂
I set out for Richmond. I had planned to stay with my daughter for the 2 weeks of my break, hoping to get extra work in the period, but now as it transpires……since I am not going back, it will be new pastures for me. Not sure at this stage if they will be greener.
Two hours later and I was settled in and we strolled into Twickenham for…..guess!!!!! yeah! You got it….cupcakes and tea. Time to celebrate my freedom and with my whole life and future ahead of me the world is my oyster. Now it was time to figure out what to do. Although I can easily pick up the phone and request another caring job, but to say that I am reluctant is the least of it.
So we; my daughter and I sat and chatted, sipped tea and made the most of a cupcake. Afterwards we took a walk along the river and enjoyed the early evening.
the river near Twickenham Bridge
The first thing I have to do is register with agencies. The only hurdle I can forsee is that I have been out of the Credit Management environment for 10 years and when I tried to secure a Credit Control position a few years ago…….already then my CV was out of date. In fact to my dismay I had forgotten many of the terms related to Credit Control…but hey! I am damn good at collecting outstanding monies. 🙂
My daughter and I are going to update my CV to reflect my newer skills, especially the Internet related skills and then I am going to go full out for interviews. I have already approached a well known Women’s agency that work specifically with women who have been out of the job market for some time. So although I haven’t actually been out of work, I am most certainly out of practice. It’s quite daunting actually.
Sunday we woke early and went for a walk along the river for breakfast at the Tide Tables Cafe in Richmond. A snug little cafe situated beneath the arches of Richmond Bridge. We settled in for tea and croissant and read the sunday papers. This is something I have not done for ages and ages and it was such a treat…to just sit and relax, sip tea, munch my way through a croissant and scan the papers for interesting articles. Heaven. And the beauty of it was that I had no deadline. Hooray! On the way there I spied what could be a residential option if I find myself on the streets 🙂 heehee.
I could set up my tent on the riverbank 🙂
I spent the afternoon sorting out and repacking my daughter’s office and cupboards, filing and tidying documents and stationery and much else besides. Right up my alley. I love taking piles of paperwork and and stuff and putting it into order. So that was the day. We had a snooze in the afternoon and then headed out in the evening for supper at Giraff in Richmond. Their food is great, and I had a very healthy pizza and a fruit smoothie. Yum! On the way home we stopped just after Twickenham Bridge and sat on one of the park benches situated on the path. It was so cool out and the evening was soft and lovely.
So although I am still feeling somwhat terrified at not having a secured position with the relevant income, it is quite exciting to plan for the future. Raising a glass to adventures yet to come!
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hmmmm....
So finally after months of wanting to and not having enough courage to….I finally quit my job! I recall a few months ago when I learned of Elizabeth Taylor’s death, that I wrote in my blog it was time to quit my job, and that I should really look at the prospect of doing just that very seriously now, but I hung on and hung on! Afraid really. In the event it was done in a fit of anger brought about through months of frustration, but I am pleased that I finally took the plunge! So now it’s ‘sink or swim’ 🙂 or become a rubber ball and bounce back!
On the day in question, I had once again been insulted by a visitor to the house and finally enough was enough. One of the things I loath is being talked down to by people, and sadly in this type of job, you are just ‘the carer’, a nothing to most people, just there to pick up and clean up and shut up! I am amazed at my capacity of endurance and by the level of how much I am prepared to endure before I reach my limit! Actually it was quite ironic that just a couple of days before I quit, I had sent my daughter a text that said “Am I just too ingrained for make do and get on with it, or is my discomfort zone not narrow enough?” and the response I got was “In fact here’s a better idea: stop thinking about it in personal development terms….go back to basics: what the %*@ do you want to do with your life?” 🙂 she also reminded me that it was me who taught her how to be a ‘rubber ball’.
So yeah, good idea! Time to bounce back. Now, what do I want to do with my life? I know what I don’t want to do and that is continue working in the same environment I have worked in for the last 10 years. I do want to travel, I do want to get back into an environment where I am exercising my brain, using my skills (of which there are many) and getting my life back. I have become so old and slow in the last few years, and working in that environment has limited my horizons to such an extent that I still feel like there is a box around me. It’s almost a physical feeling of limitations. Limitation of freedom… a huge issue for me, as one of my highest values is freedom! It was in the end horrible to work in an environment where I was unable to just ‘go out’ whenever I felt like it. I realise I had time off and they were generous, but the feelings of being tied-down were most unpleasant, and slowly but surely it wore me down.
Of course there are other considerations; like the financial issues that I wrote about in my book (How to turn 1p into -£50,000), and of course the obligation to meet my debts is very strong. So that was a bit of a deterrant to the ‘jump off the edge and let’s see if I sink or swim’ mindset for which I have been known. However, if I look at the other aspect; the ‘rubber ball’ syndrome then hey I will be just fine! Finances can be sorted, arrangements can be made and I can in fact use my experience and knowledge to generate the necessary!
I phoned my younger sister that evening (thank goodness for skype) to pour out my woes, I was feeling just a bit terrified at the prospect of no money coming in, in the next two weeks (the limit of my current horizons), and she came up with a brilliant idea. Like my daughter she is a font of bright ideas. So here’s the thing! I am 50+, living in a country that to all intents and purposes is going through a recession (or so the papers would lead us to believe), I have been out of my qualified area of expertise for the last 10 years, and in those years have not gained any new quantifiable skills besides all the Personal Development courses I did! Hmmm.
So what to do? Well the first thing she suggested was that I blog about my new journey, about what it’s like for a 56year-old woman to start off afresh at an age where you are no longer considered viable in the Corporate Field, about how I plan to get back into the job market (if that’s what I decided to do), to share my experiences, good and bad of whatever hurdles or successes I may have. To sit down and list any new skills I have gained over the last few years – like figuring out how the internet works, learning how to blog, how to do research on google (at which I am getting pretty good), how to build and manage twitter and facebook profiles/pages, and of course now seriously make the most of creating and conducting London tours. Well thats easy, I love conducting tours!
My first step of course will be to write up a skills based CV, and start advertising my services. No! Cheeky, not those kind of services 🙂 ). hmmmm. Watch this space…….
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I will say one thing for sure….social media or the tools of social media have certainly changed our social lives.
Today (Monday) I met up with a lass I met through twitter. When I started my @3days_in_london twitter account last year had no idea of some of the lovely people I would meet. Actually that stands true for my @notjustagranny twitter as well as my blog and facebook page.
But back to 3days….last year some time I made the acquaintance of Beth via twitter and we got to chatting through mentions and dm’s. She had visited London a number of times and loved the city. She enjoyed the tweets I posted and we kept in contact over the months and promised to meet up when she was next in London (she hails from the USA).
In due course we connected via facebook and last week on one of the rare days I had connection to the internet I noticed a post from her on my feed that indicated she was in London!!! whoo hoo! I sent a quick message and said “Let’s meet up” and yesterday we did! 🙂
What a lovely lass! We met at the 4th plinth in Trafalgar Square and from there made our way to the Embankment Cafe in the Victoria Embankment Gardens. What a delight to meet someone who shares my passion for London.
We exchanged stories of our London adventures and like me she feels that this is where she is meant to be! Standing one day in front of the Royal Courts of Justice, she looked around her and realised that London was exactly where she was meant to live! Precisely how I feel about the city. Only my epiphany came back in 2001 as the train roared out from the underground near Harrow and I saw the chimney pots on the houses (I told this story before so won’t bore you again!)
Beth also loves to dig deep beneath the layers of history and discover enchanting and secretive places in the city. Our conversation went back and forth as we enjoyed a delicious slice of cake and a ‘cuppa’! 🙂 She was currently in London to do a TEFL course and plans to return next year to live in this marvellous city…..how could she not!
She is planning a return to London in October of this year as well which is great coz I will be on a break pretty much the same time as she is in London so we are planning a days walkabout! 🙂 yay! The idea will be to start early in the morning and just walk wherever our feet take us. Like me she loves to just meander and investigate the unknown.
How marvellous. And what is brilliant about this little story is that I would never have met Beth were it not for twitter and facebook.
So, like travel broadens the mind, and books broaden our knowledge, so it is that the internet opens up opportunities to meet people from across the globe; people we may never have had the good fortune to meet otherwise…..unless you believe in fate and that we would have met somewhere along the line anyway! Possible certainly, but I am not so sure we would meet as many marvellous people as what we do. I have made the acquaintance of folks from across the globe, some of whom I have met in person, some of whom I correspond with on a regular basis via the net (when I have connection).
So there we are, I have met a lovely young woman with whom I hope to keep in touch and perhaps become friends in time.
As for the cake….hmmmmhmmm I can certainly recommend a visit to the Embankment Cafe. I had the carrot cake and it was delicious. For £3.50 you get a large cup of tea (not in a pot mind) and a fairly decent sized slice of cake. A real deal in my opinion. They have chairs and table set up outside and it was wonderful to sit in the cooling shade of the bountiful green trees, the hum of traffic dulled by the hedgerows, the sounds of a table tennis game going on nearby, and twitter of birds going about their business….sublime. I will definitely be going back there next week during my break. the only downside were the pigeons, a real pest, landing on the table as we were eating.
And as of yesterday we have just 361 days to the 2012 Olympics! Hooray!! I am so excited.
the 2012 Olympic Clock in Trafalgar Square.....only 361 days to go as of 01.08.2011
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well hello! 🙂 I was hoping to post a blog today, been for some really exciting walks round London the last few weeks. But my internet reception keeps going off after a couple of minutes, so I will have to get back to that another time. It’s been a really annoying couple of weeks actually and has made me realise just how much I depend on the internet for conversation, connection and keeping in touch. so far I have been online for about 10 minutes and in that time had to log off and back on again 4 times!!! just too irritating to continue for any length of time.
I did discuss this with the provider and it seems that all they can offer is a) I have to be patient and wait till they get the upgrade done
b) I cancel the contract and go elsewhere.
Nice one 3!!! especially since I have been a customer for the last 6 years! So instead I argued my case and have managed to acquire a credit for 3 months of no charge! and quite right too.
On the plus side, I have been doing a lot of reading about London and know a lot more useless information than I did a few weeks ago. I have managed to prepare 35 blogs for my business site http://www.3daysinlondon.info which I will download/upload (I am never too sure which is which) once I am on leave in August.
Thankfully I will be off for 14 days and hopefully will have internet reception where I will be staying. Hopefully!!!
So in the meantime, I am writing up loads of info for twitter, reading, and generally twiddling my thumbs…I am to my shame also watching a lot more TV. However, in my defence….I am also bored. What did I do before the internet took over my life? 🙂
So with the impending holiday (well more a break from work than a holiday) I will make the most of the time off and update my twitter account, facebook page and my blogs. I will also be going on a lovely long walk through London, celebrating my daughter’s birthday (with cupcakes most likely), possibly working out of town for a week (if the agency find a postion for me) and completing the itineraries for the business.
ooo, which brings me to…..I don’t think I told you yet…..but I did my first conducted tour recently! It was for a group of 12 people. It was great fun! Every one said they really enjoyed it (hope they were not fibbing) and we got to enjoy each others company for 2 hours while I showed them round London. Whilst researching the route I discovered all sorts of interesting things…like that Oscar Wilde was incarcerated at the Bow Street Magistrates Court and goaled for 2 years! (of course that was a long time ago! 🙂 and also that King Charles II was a very bad lad! and all sorts of useless information….but so right up my alley. The more I learn about this city the more fascinating I find it.
So anyhow, thats me for now. I will be back with more later. till then…. au revoir!! 🙂 and look at that, this turned out to be a blog of it’s own! hahaha! now lets see if I have reception for it to go thru!
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So, the trip to South Africa was timeous after all. The reason we visited last month was to spend some time with not only the family and friends, but also two lovely people who are both in their 90’s. My daughter’s grandparents have both been unwell over the last year with falls and various other ailments. The last time we saw them was 3.5 years ago on a trip in 2008.
The time we spent with them on this trip was very precious and we had some lovely times with laughter and talking and shared experiences.
Sadly, today we found out that her grandfather passed away this week! 😦 This was not unexpected, but devastating nonetheless. So we had the time to say goodbye, although we didnt know how soon he would go, and how grateful we are that we made the trip. So goodbye to a wonderful man; Alan you will be dearly missed.
in loving memory of a lovely man - Alan Daubney
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Hello. 🙂 It feels like I have been away for ages and am quite out the loop. So here’s the thing……I have had major challenges with my computer and internet reception these last 3 weeks…in fact I am not even sure I will be able to post this blog!!! (if you are reading this, then that probably means I did = a miracle, hahaha!)
So after my return from South Africa my computer went on the blink and expired after a couple of days. After much mucking about and some extremely irate calls to 3G who provided me with the computer I found someone who could have a look at it for me. The problem was resolved within 20minutes = the transformer had expired. Bought a new one and hey presto, I could access the computer again.
And so began the next stage in the saga……internet reception. This has now gone on for 2 weeks, and after numerous calls to the network provider and computer provider I have today told them that unless they sort this out in the next 24hours, I will not only cancel the contract, but I will also return the computer that they sold to me on a 2 year contract with a 1 year warranty! and then i will go to another provider! It seems they are working on the mast in the area and this is causing network interuptions which will last until 22 September! Hello! Not my problem. You are charging me for a service I am not receiving….therefore I expect to not be charged = one month’s credit agreed. However, as I explained to them this morning, that is not going to solve the problem as I run my business from this computer and I have not been able to do anything for 3 weeks. Nothing, nada and ziltch!
So folks, my apologies for being so scarce, but I can scarcely ( 🙂 ) bring myself to log on these days coz I know what is going to happen…..and that is enough to make me want to throw the computer right out the window. So rather than mess about with my blood pressure I have stayed off the internet!
If I manage to post this blog…..it will be a miracle. In the interim, please forgive me for being so quiet I will be back asap!
In the meantime….what would you suggest would be good ‘Things To Do’ when your network provider tells you that you will not be having internet access for another 2 months+!
I am thinking along the lines of ‘How to throw the computer out the window without breaking it’.
Posted in It's my life | Tagged loss of internet reception, what to do when unable to access the internet | 5 Comments »
hi folks, long time no blog!!! I have an excuse…..it’s called a holiday or in this instance a ‘trip’. There was no holiday tagged on at the end….too much rushing around.
So here are the stats as worked out by my daughter:
11 days, 7 airplane flights, 4 of which: long haul flights, 5 airports, 3 provinces, 3 countries, 5 friends not seen in 10 years (or more), 21 family members, 3 Wimpy visits, 3 MilkyLane visits, 2 Spur visits, £77 spent on my phonebill (her phone bill…not mine), add to that 1 island (the UK), 2 continents, a lot of driving and very little sleep!!! And 1 lost baggage!!!!
CJ at Wimpy in Johannesburg
What a trip. We flew out from Heathrow at 15:05 on 14th June first stop Doha in Qatar. A short wait and then overnight to Johannesburg for a connecting flight to Durban where we were collected at the airport by my daughter’s father. We spent 3 days in Durban visiting the old folks and then flew to Cape Town. Met at the airport by my sister and hubbie we met up with CJ’s friends at the Waterfront and eventually drove through to Somerset West where we stayed for 3 days and then to Johannesburg, again met at the airport by the ‘Daddy’, stayed at his place for a day (this was the only time we knew for sure it was winter-it was freezing), then off to stay at my sister’s house for a day, had supper and the kids all visited. Left Thursday23rd at 4pm for the 21:50 to Doha where we had an 11 hour lay-over and after 40 hours of no sleep we arrived at Heathrow at 22:23 Friday night!!!! sans my luggage! “Oh, it got left behind in Johannesburg”. hurrumph!!!
Our transport went as such: taxi, bus, plane, bus, bus, plane, bus, car, legs, car, bus, plane, bus, car, bus, plane, bus, car, car, bus, plane, bus, bus, plane, bus, taxi….home!
We evaded elephants in the urban jungle of Durban,
elephants in Durban
watched monkeys climbing through the trees, got woken by the hah-dee-dah birds in the morning, paddled in the Indian Ocean, rode on a rickshaw,
a rickshaw ride
saw sharks swimming about in the hold of an old delapidated boat that is now an amusement area, watched the lunar eclipse, walked on the beach at Gordon’s Bay,
Gordon's Bay
strolled through the gardens in Cape Town, ate too much, had way too many milkshakes, a bit too much wine in Cape Town (my sister’s fault), a BBQ with family and friends, rubbish airline food, watched Blesbok running about and fighting in the veld,
blesbok in the veld....it was far away
watched the sunrise on at least 5 of the days, and sunsets on most, watched ‘Zeitgeist’ the movie in JNB (exceptionally great movie btw), and 4 movies on the planes: none of which I can remember the name of!
I traded-in my old trainers that I have had for 8 years for a new pair at Johannesburg airport domestic departures,
these shoes were made for walking......farewell old friends
bought 3 items of clothing in Cape Town and declared a no-more-buy policy at the prices, almost passed out from shock at the price of food and living in RSA compared to how it was a few years ago (now comparable or more than London), watched my budget go through the ceiling and was totally impressed by the level of service we received wherever we went.
We listened to stories and tales of life in RSA, then told our own, shared photos and captured more, caught up with old friends, made a few new ones, enjoyed quality time with the family; bemused at how quickly the kiddies are growing up and left just a teensy-weensy bit homesick……first time in almost 10 years, and considered the possibility that I may just be able to live in SA again….but only in spring and only for a short time….like a long holiday 🙂
We saw how bad the pollution is world-wide, and how blue the sky is above it, deserted deserts, lakes and dams, snaking rivers, the Black Sea (pretty damn awesome), the English Channel, the Persian Gulf and Gulf of Bahrain, snow on the mountains in Turkey, flew over Iraq (????), and Europe, walked in the Indian Ocean, saw the Atlantic Ocean from the air, massive mountain ranges in South Africa and spent 15 hours in the Middle East!
Doha Airport
So that was the trip……now for the holiday. Guernsey in August! yay.
oh! and p.s. the bag was delivered the next day! whew 🙂
Posted in family and relationships, Holidays, It's my life, Travel | Tagged holidays in south africa, long-haul flights, travel to doha in qatar | 6 Comments »
hahaha!!! sometimes it’s the fwd mails that get me…….
No NURSING HOME FOR me!!!
No nursing home for me. I’ll be checking into a Holiday Inn!
With the average cost for a nursing home care costing $188.00 per day, there is a better way when we get old and too feeble.
I’ve already checked on reservations at the Holiday Inn. For a combined long term stay discount and senior discount, it’s $59.23 per night.
Breakfast is included, and some have happy hours in the afternoon. That leaves $128.77 a day for lunch and dinner in any restaurant we want, or room service, laundry, gratuities and special TV movies. Plus, they provide a spa, swimming pool, a workout room, a lounge and washer-dryer, etc.
Most have free toothpaste and razors, and all have free shampoo and soap.
$5 worth of tips a day you’ll have the entire staff scrambling to help you. They treat you like a customer, not a patient.
There’s a city bus stop out front, and seniors ride free. The handicap bus will also pick you up (if you fake a decent limp).
To meet other nice people, call a church bus on Sundays. For a change of scenery, take the airport shuttle bus and eat at one of the nice restaurants there.
While you’re at the airport, fly somewhere. Otherwise, the cash keeps building up.
It takes months to get into decent nursing homes. Holiday Inn will take your reservation today.
And you’re not stuck in one place forever — you can move from Inn to Inn, or even from city to city. Want to see Hawaii? They have Holiday Inn there too.
TV broken? Light bulbs need changing? Need a mattress replaced? No problem.. They fix everything, and apologize for the inconvenience.
The Inn has a night security person and daily room service. The maid checks to see if you are ok. If not, they’ll call an ambulance . . . or the undertaker. If you fall and break a hip, Medicare will pay for the hip, and Holiday Inn will upgrade you to a suite for the rest of your life.
And no worries about visits from family. They will always be glad to find you, and probably check in for a few days mini-vacation. The grandkids can use the pool..
What more could I ask for? So, when I reach that golden age, I’ll face it with a grin and check-in at the Holiday Inn 🙂 see ya!
Posted in family and relationships, Fun Stuff, It's my life, Travel | Tagged checking in at the Holiday Inn, getting old, Holiday Inn holidays | 4 Comments »
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