I have essentially been homeless for nearly 18 months now, staying in b&bs and guest houses between bookings since September 2019, with the occasional sleepover on my daughter’s couch.
My belongings have been in storage for much of that time. Some of the many boxes filled with stuff I’ve accumulated since I arrived in the UK and much of it brought over from South Africa in 2016 after I obtained my British citizenship.
Settling under the weight of my belongings has been tough. Walking the Camino taught me about just how little we really need to get by, but real life is not a Camino and so I find it hard to give up on ‘stuff’.
But on Monday I moved into a new place which I shall call home for the next 6 months at least. ‘Move in’ is a bit of a stretch of course since atm its just me and my suitcase πππ Due to the snow I’ve been unable to get to the storage unit anyway even though I want to, and was supposed to on Monday afternoon.
So meanwhile I’ve had to borrow teabags, blankets and a pillow from my daughter, and a blanket, water-bottle, heater and kettle from the landlord, who also kindly bought me some milk last night when went out to Waitrose. I already have my own tea mug to hand that I take to bookings because I loathe using the client’s mugs…some of which are just manky.
Today I’m having a pj day and staying in bed till after midday…I think I deserve it after 5 weeks of getting up at 6.45 every day ππππ₯±π₯±π₯± although I suspect my stomach may well get me out sooner….
But, since the ‘new place’ is essentially just a big room in a shared house, with separate, shared facilities, I will only be bringing over the essentials like my backpack and some extra clothes and my groceries plus bedlinen of course, and a towel. Its going to be so good to have some of my travel books as well…just to make it look homely. Of course pride of place goes to a framed photo of my grandson that travels around the country with me. That it always next to my bedside so that he’s the first thing I see each day π₯°π₯°
But the best of all is that once I’ve got all the stuff I want, to make life a bit more pleasant, I can just leave it all here when I leave for my next booking, and not have to stress about getting to the storage unit to leave or collect anything.
Its been really stressful and quite expensive having to look for a place to stay between bookings, but this place is a very reasonable rent and as I say, quite spacious. I’ve viewed so many rooms in the last 18 months and they’re all very small and expensive. My heartfelt thanks to my son-in-law who spotted the advert and alerted me to view.
So here it is…unadorned with my belongings as yet, except for a few odds and ends…the desk sold the place really…somewhere I can set up my computer – most important!!


There’s a little, unused, fireplace behind where I’m standing which I’ll fill with something decorative, and 2 small cupboards with hanging space and shelves.
So in all, and in comparison to what millions of other people around the world have to live in….its a palace…. albeit a feking cold palace atm π₯Άπ₯Άπ₯Ά even with the heater on, its cold, which is why I’m having a pj day…with a hotwater-bottle under my feet. Roll on summer ππ
Welcome home Cindy ππππ



Looks nice and cosy. Take care!
Thank you. Yes, I’m enjoying it so far
It will definitely feel more like home once you have some of your own stuff there … enjoy your new place (and sitting at that desk π).
Oh yes, for sure. I’m hoping to get to the storage tomorrow now that the ice is beginning to clear. And thank you, I’m sure I will…and definitely the desk us a bonus and of course I can also have my grandson over to play and he’ll have somewhere to sit and draw…he’s obsessed with drawing βΊβΊ
That is great news that you have a place to keep your things now. Enjoy your pj day, you have earned it.
Thank you ππ
Welcome home Cindy! I hope you are very happy in your new place.
Thomas, hello!!! ππ thank you very much, its grand to have somewhere to call home. How lovely to hear from you. I was reading up on your travels a week or so ago and tried to leave a comment but it didn’t work. Sounds like you folks had some super adventures.
Yes, we are very lucky down here–not only can we travel, it’s also summer! Hope things get better (and warmer) for you soon!
ππ wonderful. Yes, we are on our way to spring. I don’t mind winter really, and I love snow, but usually by March I’ve had enough of being cold ππ its alright when I’m working in a house with central heating, but if not…its can be tough..
Have a good and cozy pj day and good luck on your settlement.
I did thank you ππ yes, settling in. Nice to have a place to call home
It is nice that you have a home now, then you can concentrate on other things. I know how stressful and scary to move to another country and start life from “zero”. But you will be fine, it’s just take a little bit time. Good luck and enjoy your day off.
The place gives me a good feeling:) enjoy
Congratulations on your amazing journey. I love your blog, and your journeys that are shared in it. May you continue to succeed.
Stay Safe&Smart π
Hello ππ thank you so much for your lovely comment, I really appreciate it. Enjoy your day